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4 Steps to Creating a Family History Book in 20184 Steps to Creating a Family History Book in 2018
Do you dream of creating a family history book?
Has your book been just that, a dream?
I’m a big believer that to accomplish your dreams you need goals and a plan.
For those of you who are dreaming about creating a family history book in 2018, our next four posts are designed with you in mind. We are going to close out 2017 and begin 2018 with developing a plan to turn your family history book dream into a reality.
Over December and January, we will cover the following in a 4-part series.
Step One. Identify your dream and the purpose behind the dream
Step Two. Identify and set your goals needed to make your family history book a reality
Step Three. Make an action plan and timeline for accomplishing these goals.
Step Four. Set up the daily habits required to accomplish your goals.
Each part will come with a downloadable template to help you flesh out your plan on paper.
Today, we start with Part 1 – The Dream, and its Purpose.
Part 1 – The Dream and What Drives Your Dream
Your dream is to write a family history book. But why do you want to write a family history book? It’s not enough to just have the idea. You must also identify the purpose and passion behind your vision, any vision including creating a family history book.
When you have a clear sense of the purpose of your project it enables you to focus your efforts. It compels you to stay on task and push forward when the work might become difficult or overwhelming.
Knowing why you want to create a family history book is an essential first step in figuring out how to achieve this dream.
Only when you know the why will you find the courage to take risks needed to make it happened, to stay motivated when the road becomes tough and to take on a challenging yet very rewarding trajectory.
Why I write family history stories and books?
To help you identify your own purpose behind wanting to create a family history book I thought I would share some of the reasons that got me started in writing family history but also why I continue to make it a significant part of my life.
- I believe that stories can close the gap between our ancestors and our families. We’ve all tried to share our family history with our loved ones. We’ve all been met with the eye rolls. I believe that in creating a family history book that is entertaining and compelling, I could overcome their resistance and close this gap.
- I was worried about spending years researching my family history, acquiring boxes and files full of information only to have it lost or be packed away when I left this world. I wanted to create a book that was going to be a representation of my work. It would not be just a legacy of my ancestors but my legacy of years of research and dedication to my passion for genealogy.
- I wanted to create something that had longevity, a book that was going to sit proudly on all my relative’s bookshelves. It wanted a book that they would be proud to have displayed on their coffee table. I wanted a book that they would reference from time to time over the years and a book that would be passed on for generations to come.
These were the three significant purposes that fed my dream to create a family history book. You may have other reasons for wanting to create a book. The point here is to acknowledge those motives. These larger purposes will feed you throughout your writing journey. When you have a drive and desire for your project, you’re more likely to stick with it.
The Power of Writing Down Your Dreams and Goals
An essential component in making your dreams a reality is to write them down. There is considerable evidence to support the fact if you write down your thoughts and goals you are more likely to transform those desires into reality. It also suggests that if you share your written goals with a friend who believes in your ability to succeed it will aid you in meeting with success.
Therefore, each step along the way in this 4-part series, I will provide you with a template you can download and print off and fill in so that you have your dream, purposes, goals and action steps all written down. Not only will this help you take your ideas from the thinking stage to putting them on paper and making them concrete you’ll also have a written plan to help you proceed.
Let’s start by identifying your dream to create a family history book and the purpose behind your vision. Download the Dream and Purpose Template and fill it in.
Your Dream and Purpose Template
Watch for our next installment as we take your dream and begin to identify the goals needed to make it a reality.
Identifying Your Goals
Making an Action Plan and Project Timeline
Jan 17, 2018 – Creating Daily Habits that Support Your Goal

Creating a Family History Book: Detours, Delays, and DistastersCreating a Family History Book: Detours, Delays, and Distasters
Many of us start out with the best of intentions when it comes to turning our family tree research into a family history book. But then something happens. Our book project is completely thrown off course, and we cant seem to get back on track and bring it across the finish line.
You are not alone when it comes to struggling to complete your family history book. There is any number of detours, delays, and disasters that can keep you from finishing.
Lets look at a few of the more popular problems that can happen to your project and how to fix them and get you back on track.
Disaster I cant afford to print my book
Ive written my book, but it is too big. I mean really big and I cant afford to print it. This is a disaster first because the entire goal of writing a family history book is to be able to share it. If you can afford to print it, or your family cant afford to purchase a copy what is the point. What was all that work for?
THE FIX Take on manageable size projects
Break your family history into sections, one book per surname or couple. You can even create a book on a single ancestor if you have a lot of research for them. Dont think that your family history must be one giant book. There are so many more viable options that will not only interest your family but make the book more affordable. If your book is already written, consider natural breaks in your book. Turn the book into a series and print it in volumes reducing the cost to your family.
Delay Life keeps getting in the way of creating my family history book.
I really want to create my book, but life keeps getting in the way. I just cant seem to find the time.
THE FIX Comprise a detailed plan
You need a detailed plan with manageable tasks and deadlines that takes you from start to finish. You also need to carve out time each week to work on your family history book. If you dont make it a priority in your life no one else will. The only way to do that is to schedule it into your weekly calendar and make that time non-negotiable. When you have a plan, you have a focus, and it becomes much easier to stay on track.
Delay My research isnt complete.
I want to get a little bit more research done before I start writing my book.
The FIX Adopt a new mindset
Stop it. The research will never be done. Create a book with what you have. If you keep waiting to find that next piece of research to include in the book, youll never get around to making your book. You need to adopt a new mindset. Create a book with what you have One ancestor, one story at a time. Learn the process of building a book on something small and manageable. Then later you can take on that bigger book. Also, many on-demand printers allow you to make changes to your book at any time. You can always go back a few years from now and make any changes you want, provide updates and second editions.
Detour I cant figure out how to organize my book.
My book is chaos, it has no organization, and I dont know how to fix it.
The FIX Outline the scope and span for your book
Taking some time upfront to identify the scope and span of your book before you start will go a long way in keeping chaos at a distance. Identify very clear parameters for your book, including the ancestors that will be in it, what years you will cover? How many pages, how many stories? Without these clearly defined parameters, youll quickly get off track, and the whole project can become a runaway train that is hard to bring back under control. Mindmap out your contents. Divide your book into parts, sections, chapters, and stories. When you compartmentalize the book, it becomes easier to organize. Dont try to write your family history as one long story from beginning to end. Family histories are comprised of many individuals each with their own story. Dont try to make them all fit together in one story.
Delay – I dont have the tech skills to make a book.
Many family historians are intimidated by the software available to create beautiful coffee table style descendants books.
THE FIX Anything can be learned or hired out.
Build some time into your schedule to learn. If the tech element of producing a book is not your strength, then create a team. Find family members with these skills who are willing to help you. There are also lots of online courses and videos to help you learn book building software. Most of this software has simple drag and drop features. Explore what is out there. Its easier than you think.
Disaster -My stories are boring
My stories are boring, and I want them to be better before I print my book. What good is a book that wont be read?
THE FIX- Learn to turn your facts into entertaining stories.
By learning to write narrative nonfiction, you can turn the true-life stories of your ancestors into entertaining and engaging stories. Narrative nonfiction uses details, description, plot, tension, and dialogue to bring family history stories to life on the page. Take a class and learn to turn facts into real stories.
Do you have a delay, detour, or disaster that is preventing you from creating your family history book?
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Hey Lynn…Great suggestion. Thanks!
I like that suggestion, Lynn,
Each ancestor’s story taking place in their own part of the book, as a separate story.
My book will be in two parts, but with the same ancestor. Part One: His life before immigration, and why he immigrated. Part Two: Immigration and dealing with a new set of problems.
Thanks for your valued wisdom and advice.
Have a wonderful Easter weekend.
Love and blessings, Paula.
Thank you Lynn for addressing my question.
I like your idea of writing three separate stories with just a small introduction of the next generation within each one. A little glimpse into the life of the son; a hint of what is to come if the reader presses on through the story.
I also love your idea of writing the individual stories as sequels. Perhaps that’s where I can draw a connection to the theme again; from the end of one story to the beginning of another.
Thanks again Lynn. Your advice is helpful in sorting some things out in my head! Brenda
Your suggestion is very useful, thanks Lynn.
I have a further complication that you can perhaps comment on.
I’m writing about my grandfather: he fought in WW1, married , lost his wife, remarried and went through WW2.
I’m also writing his wife’s story: she was an artist, she married, she died after giving birth.
So both have lives before marrying, both undergo the tragedy of her death, and he lives on afterwards in another life.
Two stories which come together in the middle.
How can I best connect these stories?
Your suggestion is very useful, thanks Lynn.
I have a further complication that you can perhaps comment on.
I’m writing about my grandfather: he fought in WW1, married , lost his wife, remarried and went through WW2.
I’m also writing his wife’s story: she was an artist, she married, she died after giving birth.
So both have lives before marrying, both undergo the tragedy of her death, and he lives on afterwards in another life.
Two stories which come together in the middle.
How can I best connect these stories?